Starting a Healthy Relationship with Food

By Erin Ard

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What should I eat during a flare-up? What should I eat to stay trim? What should I eat to be healthy? What even CAN I eat? Every day I'm plagued with these questions. Even more aggravating, none of which have an easy, clear-cut answer. But having had experience fumbling over meal-planning and studying nutrition, I've learned how to better navigate my eating habits.

Planning and preparing healthy meals for yourself can be an exhausting, time-consuming, and sometimes expensive, process - especially for college students. Now if you throw in food allergies, intolerance, or chronic illness this process can get MORE complicated! Having inflammatory bowel disease (IBD), myself, I know how challenging it is to eat healthy within your own food restrictions; especially if you don't have a good understanding of nutrition, gastrointestinal disease, or what your restrictions are! My disease has been in remission for several years now, so my food limitations aren't as strict as someone having a flare-up, and I still have trouble. For those who are new to the game, IBD is a class of autoimmune diseases that causes inflammation along the GI tract when the disease is active, and can hinder nutrient absorption. With Crohn's disease, a common form of IBD, there is no specific diet to follow to control symptoms. This is probably the most annoying thing you've read today, but I better let you know now.. According to the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics, we only know of foods to avoid - foods like dairy, high fiber grains, alcohol and certain spices, since these tend to aggravate an inflamed bowel.

Being the nutrition major I am, I get to learn about the Dietary Guidelines for Americans (DGAs). These are a great resource for curious readers wanting to eat healthy and live an active lifestyle. They lay out simple and easy recommendations to help prevent chronic illness, e.g. diabetes or obesity. These illnesses have become more and more prominent in the U.S. and have direct ties with diet. But what about the many other nutrition-related diseases with not-so straightforward ties? Unfortunately, the DGAs aren't designed for all bodies. The research used to develop the recommendations use “healthy” test subjects, of course, not those with chronic illness already. If you have a chronic illness, you’ll need to take extra care to find your ideal, health promoting diet. Better start doing some research yourself or see a registered dietitian! Or try out this idea you've probably never heard before, a food diary! …

Taking extra care in regards to your diet is especially important with IBD. In Crohn's disease specifically, inflammation along the digestive tract can cause nutrient deficiency. Inflammation hinders absorption of important nutrients, vitamins, and minerals; putting you at a higher risk of malnutrition than your healthy roommate. Eating the right nutrient-rich foods and eating enough of these foods can make-or-break living healthy with IBD. All of this in mind, the DGAs are still an easy “go-to” to help you learn about what makes up a balanced meal and why. In the rest of this article, I want to help you navigate the DGAs and share my own troubles with forming healthy eating habits.

Navigating the Dietary Guidelines for Americans with IBD

When comparing the DGAs and what is good or bad for a person with the common IBD form of Crohn’s disease, there are a few noteworthy similarities. For instance, limiting saturated or trans fats, simple or added sugars, sodium and alcohol are wise choices for everyone. They also seem to focus on getting a variety of vegetable and protein choices, emphasize fiber, and recommend lower fat options for dairy. Here you need to be careful. As noted before, certain sources of fiber can hurt a person with active disease. In other cases, fiber can be very beneficial for a person with Crohn’s to add fecal bulk, when the disease is in remission (i.e. under control or without symptoms). It's important for you to understand what foods are necessary for a well-balanced diet and what foods impact your disease management. The DGAs give a great outline, but your personal nutrition plan should have the final say in deciding what to make for dinner.

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Dietary Guidelines for Americans 2015-2020

1. Follow a healthy eating pattern across the lifespan.

2. Focus on variety, nutrient density, and amount.

3. Limit calories from added sugars and saturated fats and reduce sodium intake.

4. Shift to healthier food and beverage choices.

5. Support healthy eating patterns for all.

My Relationship with Food

All of this information I have outlined is great and all, but I haven't touched on the emotional aspects of eating yet. Eating is heavily tied to the emotions I experience in a day. My mind bounces back and forth so much in a day when I think about food, eating, how I feel, how my gut feels, how much time I have before my next class, and whether I even have the energy to fix a meal up.

I eat when I’m sad and eat when I'm happy. I'll make a great meal to celebrate an accomplishment or make comfort food if my gut hurts. If I have an important event to attend, I will forego eating entirely to prevent symptoms. If I’m sad or stressed enough, I will also not eat, and wallow in my own pity. It’s confusing and raw, and I don’t understand my eating habits most of the time. Like I said, eating is a heavily influenced by my emotions, so how I feel about my Crohn's or about myself will impact what and if I eat anything. Unfortunately, I've discovered that a majority of emotions I experience will have me make bad decisions about food. But pausing to understand why I make these decisions and what fuels these emotions, has helped me to better understand myself. All of this aside, I love making food.

Striving for Progress

I used to have so many misconceptions about food. The biggest misconception I had to overcome was what I needed to eat to be healthy and what I should eat to look good. As a teen and throughout college, I was more absorbed in looking good, being thin, and keeping belly small. Not maximizing my nutrient intake by eating whole foods and managing my disease resurgence.

I used to be influenced by fads and testimonials - "stay away from dairy for clear skin", "stay away from breads and pasta and sugars to shrink your belly", etc. Everything affected me. Every headline I saw or piece of information I was told. Any advice I was given. Everything I interacted with tried to influence my thoughts, opinions, actions, and lifestyle. Here I thought I was being educated. I never realized I was depriving myself more than helping.

What I’ve been learning is that nutrition is not black and white. The world will try to convince you that there are foods you should not eat for X and foods you absolutely need for Y health benefits. Sadly, this isn’t true. There isn’t one perfect diet plan out there for everyone or for XYZ benefits. Nutrition is much more complicated than that.

With all of this in mind, I would say that right now, I have the healthiest relationship with food I've had in a long time. Studying nutrition was a major player, but I also must give credit to being mindful every day. Being mindful of my cravings and urges has helped me stay away from flare-triggering foods. And I make progress each day deconstructing any false beliefs on what I see as a "healthy" food for me.

My message to you is to educate yourself, learn about food, learn what foods you tolerate, and strive for a healthy relationship with food.