by Rifa Tusnia Mona (Dhaka, Bangladesh)
Last month, I took my very first cross-border trip—from Dhaka, Bangladesh, to Delhi, India. It wasn’t just my first international journey; it was also my first time traveling by air. That alone is exciting enough, but there was something more that made it meaningful: it was my first adventure after being diagnosed with Inflammatory Bowel Disease (IBD).
Traveling is always a mix of excitement and unpredictability. Add a chronic illness to the equation, and every small detail becomes a bit more complicated—navigating airports, managing fatigue, handling meals, and dealing with unexpected flares. But from this experience, I learned some lessons I believe could help others who are walking the same path. So, here are a few do’s and don’ts for fellow warriors out there traveling with IBD:
✔️ Do: Plan Your Journey Thoroughly
When you live with IBD, planning isn’t optional—it’s survival. While no amount of planning can prevent every hiccup (hello, Murphy’s Law), it certainly softens the ride. For instance, simple things like knowing where to buy a local SIM card, or how to book an airport cab ahead of time can make a huge difference in having a smooth start!
✔️ Do: Ask for Help When Needed
This is something I struggle with, especially as an introvert. At the airport on my return flight, I was utterly exhausted and going through a flare-up. A kind airport staff member offered to assist me, but I declined—probably out of habit or hesitation. I regretted that later. When you’re in an unfamiliar place, everyone is technically a stranger anyway. So if help is offered, take it. Even small support—like directions to the washroom or help carrying your bag—can be a huge relief when your energy is limited.
❌ Don’t: Follow Others’ Travel Routines Blindly
Everyone’s body is different. What works for your friend might not work for you—and that’s okay. Several people recommended I take the Delhi Metro to get around. It sounded smart, economical, and even a little adventurous. But for someone already fatigued, changing between the Yellow and Pink lines during rush hour turned into a nightmare. That day ended in a flare-up. Lesson learned: listen to your body first. Your energy is precious—don’t waste it trying to keep up with someone else’s idea of efficiency.
These are just a few of the moments from my first international trip with IBD. Traveling with a chronic illness can be isolating. Often, it’s hard to explain your condition or expect some stranger to truly understand it. But the truth is: you understand it. And that’s enough.
Acceptance and self-awareness are your greatest tools. Don’t let IBD define your boundaries. Opportunities are still out there, and you deserve to chase them. If you make room for compassion—for yourself first—you’ll find that you’ve already conquered half the challenges.
Don't forget to enjoy my short video of the journey (linked below!). Again, I thank you for reading this far. See you next month!